Everyone would react differently to this question depending on the surroundings. Some people would rather speak what is acceptable which in this case is “yes, i make my decisions blah blah and would abstain till marriage” but deep down, probably, many of us would quickly jump into bed with our lover if the mood is right.
Now, mood being alright includes so many things…you had a nice day, its a wedding and you are out with your lover, after a couple of beers, its so cold out and your lover snuggles up with you…list is endless.
Several people have taken a swipe at answering this question and i qoute my favourites here…
Jacqueline Mbabazi, 21, Student
“Guys normally apply the pressure demanding for sex once you have dated for a while. But if I have decided to abstain then much as I respect his feelings and desires, mine comes first and there is no compromise. If he cannot accept that then he is better off finding a girl who will give in to his demands.”
“Guys this, guys that” is always the pening statement. I believes its the girls who bring it on the guys to force them into sex. Girls way of dressing leave nothing to imagination, driving the male species wild with desire. University girls have a habit of spending every little coin of their lover and offer nothing in return not even sharing the table bill. This creates a feeling of
somehow coming up with a way to recover the lost monies, in most
cases, sex proving a better priceless activity.
Jeff Mwaniki, 23, Student
Love is about sacrifices and it is not demanding. I believe if one truly loves their boyfriend or girlfriend and who chooses to abstain, their best interests must be observed much as one may argue that one who wants the sex also has best interests in that. But we all know that sex is only legal for the married.
Take note of last bit “…sex is only legal for the married” Do you believe that? If you don’t you should! So what’s your take on this? Comments are welcome.