Christian Grey, the sensitive, handsome, billionaire is almost the man of every woman’s dreams. Which woman would not like to be picked up in a helicopter for a date? He has all the smooth moves, and except for his fondness for S&M, he makes his girl feel pretty special. This imaginative character, carved by E.L. James has much to teach men. Read on to find out what men can learn from Christian Grey:
Loyalty and fidelity are high on Christian Grey’s list. A relationship is based on trust and faith. All men should follow Grey’s example and be faithful to their partner. A man who is faithful will make his girlfriend or wife very happy indeed.
Don’t flirt with other women
Women love Grey because of his single-minded focus on Anatasia, even though he may be in the company of other beautiful women. They love the fact that he doesn’t take his eyes off her and makes her feel like she’s the only one for him. If you want to seriously impress a girl, you should keep your eyes on her only, and not get distracted or show your interest in other women. Make her feel as if she’s the reason for your existence.
Know what you want from life
A man with money is attractive to women. But it isn’t about money all the time. A man’s ambitiousness is what attracts women the most. Most women are into passionate men who are career-driven and able leaders. Hard working men who know how to reach their goals draw women to themselves. Christain Grey is just that. Men can follow Grey’s footsteps and be the ideal one.
Listen to her
Women are complex creatures with a lot on their mind sometimes. Most women like to think through everything before doing anything, which is a major cause of stress. Sometimes they just need to confide in someone they trust. Talking to someone lightens their burden and helps to achieve clarity. Men should listen and share in their loved one’s troubles, establishing a strong connection to her.
A woman may be the CEO of her company. But that doesn’t mean she wouldn’t like some pampering from her man. Christain Grey freely pampers Anastasia and openly spoils her. You can do the same for your girl.Give her your credit card and let her splurge and gorge on her favourite things and food once in a while.
Respect her opinions
The best gift you could give your spouse or girlfriend is your attention. Listen to what she’s saying and accept and act on her opinions, instead of being controlling and dominating. Like Christian Grey, you can make your partner feel secure by respecting her opinions. Do try to find out her interests and her likes and dislikes, and go the extra mile to do things for her.
Mr. Grey in ’50 Shades of Grey’ shows affection for Ana, showers her with compliments, hugs her and kisses her. This redeems him a tiny bit from his jealous, dominating, and controlling behaviour. Mind you, these are qualities you should always stay away from. Just cuddle your love like Christian Grey and make her feel special.
Show your emotions
Men find it very hard to express their emotions. They feel vulnerable and exposed which stops them from opening up. But women really appreciate it if their husband or boyfriend open up and show their feelings.
The book 50 Shades of Grey’s fascinating character has both a dark side to him, as well as a caring and thinking side. Men can learn what not to do and how to appreciate the women in their lives from Mr. Grey, and improve their relationship with their better halves.