How to handle a girlfriend with OCD?

The OCD enhanced girlfriends give the real ‘kick’ in life. It’s just like playing the final level of NFS i.e. they are so damn tough to handle. They are damn obsessive, possessive, uncontrollable, idiotic, jealous, etc that you find it a real challenge to tame them.

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One of my girlfriends was a severe patient of OCD and it was like almost impossible to handle her. She used to throw tantrums, shout at me, embarrass me in public, act silly, etc. To bring out a few incidents:

An Incident

I was sitting with my female boss in our office cafe. She was an aged woman, the age of my mother. My girlfriend caught hold of us and created a scene right there in public. And by scene I mean she abused my boss and used words like “Why the hell are you trying on my husband?” Then she threw away the plates and pulled me by my shirt carrying me away. She called my mother telling her that we were in a relationship and insisted on getting us married.

Let her vent out her energy on you

The main problem is that OCD patients get physically violent and create tantrums in public. You cannot control them easily. So let them vent out their energy while you remain cool behind. Just keep smiling while she shouts. Eat an apple and take a chill pill.

relationship is over

Tease her

The more aggressive she gets, the more should you tease her. Make her lose her temper. Make her angry. Test her patience. At the end of the day she will break down and will become all yours. When she is calm, tell her that you don’t like her OCD centric behaviour. As Marilyn Monroe’s words suggest, if you can’t handle her at her worst, you don’t deserve her at her best. Usually girls with OCD regret what all they did when they are in a normal mood. Comfort her by telling her that you actually like her attitude. Although prior permission is advised, but be really rough in bed. Dominate her. Keep sessions long and wild. This will make her feel that you love her and need her.

Act like you have OCD as well

If she is conscious of girls you meet, you should be conscious of guys she meets. If she throws tantrums in public, you should make it worse. Have a repulsive attitude. Show that you are no less obsessive. At the end of the day, she will understand where she is wrong.

Trying the above techniques, you may worsen her disorder, but trust me, life will be fun. Also, for all you know, she may understand and change.

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