Extra marital affair, which means having a relationship with someone other than your spouse after one marries. It is said that extra marital affairs work for those who likes and longs that extra spice in their life. Disloyalty is as old as marriage and along with the growing number of people cheating their partners who are unaware of the damage done to their marriage. While a study says that 41 per cent of the spouses admit about their affair.
Psychiatrist believes that males by nature are polygamous. Marital disharmony and failed marriages lead to extra marital affairs, where people look for better options to satisfy them mentally as well as physically.
Extra marital affairs seem guilt free when one says compassion and commitment does not come hand in hand. One may say that she loves her husband truly but the fact that she is not physically satisfied with her husband, persuades her to go to someone who can meet her physical pleasures. While we can see cases where after a decade being married one gets bored with his wife and some other woman seem interesting to him now. These things suggest the less of guilt consciousness, as individuals are facing some problem themselves.
In the world, it is said to be that “Variety is the spice of life”. It can’t be expected from humans who are not monogamous to be committed to a single person throughout his or her lifetime. If you partner has no objection on you having an extra marital affair, then it is fine to have it if you need it. But if he or she does not support this, your marriage can be at great risk if your partner finds out about your affair. Future of your children will be put to risk if such situation occurs, where you will get divorced by your partner and this will adversely affect the child.
It is always possible to mend a relationship. Try and fix those problems which are bothering you. For your family and future of your children you need to do that. Even if this doesn’t work taking a risk to indulge yourself in an extra marital affair is worthy enough.
Everything has a solution. One may get carried away with the newness and excitement that he or she get from a extra marital affair, but the thing is not lasting.