Batch mates are a whole lot of fun and also lend you a helping hand whenever you need one. They are the most awesome things and people you can fall back on at all times. However, you have had it if you fell for one of your batch mates and god help you out of this sticky situation! This is something you should avoid in all entireties. Here are reasons why you should be doing so –
It Gets Awkward
If you make advances towards your batch mate but he or she is totally disinterested in you then it will make the whole situation awkward and also ruin your friendship entirely. Hence, it is best to maintain a distance and keep it that way if at all you are falling in love with your batch mate. It isn’t easy but you got to do it at times.
You may lose a Friend
A batch mate is just a friend who is always there to help you during times of need. There is every chance that he will not like it if you make advances on him or her and hence, he’ll or she’ll eventually, avoid you. No one wants to be in a situation like this with a friend and it is not a nice place to be in either. Hence, keep your advances to yourself at all times.
You need to have a Source of Information
Whenever you miss a class or go to sleep while the class is on, you can rely on your batch mate for passing on the information intact to you. However, it will no longer work as a reliable source of scouring out information if you suddenly decide to have a crush on them.
You won’t even have a batch mate
You will realise with time that if you go on like this, you are sooner or later likely to lose your batch mate itself. Friendship will be then a farfetched thing, an unasked question.
Let’s Keep it Professional
You and your batch mate are here for a purpose and it isn’t to flirt with each other. Hence, respect each other’s space and don’t enter the forbidden area with your batch mate. If you are extremely keen on it, arrange after the batch is over.