Women love men who have great manners, but as the dynamics of dating are changing, so are the rules of chivalry. While the rules of being a gentleman remain intact, some chivalrous acts have become outdated. So before you go overboard displaying them to please your girl, here are some quick tips.
Do not make your date wait for you
Remember, she can be excused for reaching late, but women are very unforgiving when it comes to men. So if you are indeed running late, inform her in advance. If you are picking her up, make sure you choose the right parking spot at the destination. A spot that you feel is perfect can turn out to be the most imperfect one if it has a puddle on her side or is far away from the entrance. We will state the obvious; you don’t want your lady to soil her shoes or walk all the way to the entrance spot in her high-heel stilettos. Drop her off at the entrance and go park the car yourself.
Best to Avoid Crowded Places
Next, if you have fixed up a date in a crowded place, do not go inside and find yourself a table to avoid the crowd. Women hate the idea of locating her man in a crowd. Find a space where you can spot her as soon as she reaches so you two can avoid the ‘Find me if you can’ situation.
Chivalry!
When you two find yourself a table, it’s still considered nice to pull the chair for her but it ends there. Refrain from getting up ‘every time’ she rises from the chair. That’s totally outdated. In fact, you will just end up embarrassing her and yourself.
She can make her own Order
While ordering the meal, let her order for herself. If you know the place pretty well, let her know your recommendations, but end it there. Don’t impose it on her and let the final call be hers. Never order on her behalf. Some girls could get offended by this act.
Now comes the trickiest part- the BILL. In today’s time, women are earning as well as men. However, if you are in Ahemdabad, you pay the whole bill yourself!
Summary – Chicks out here are shy and are bound by family norms. Hence, it is going to be a sleek task if you plan to get your hands on one.
