Woman should be given the right to decide when to have a baby as she is the real caretaker of a kid. The day the child is born she has to feed the baby if it is an external feeding i.e. by bottle then also her better half will not have the patience to feed the new born after every two hours. It is not only a case wherein the wife is homemaker but also both of them are working then also there is no support of husband as far as important jobs like bottle feeding, cleaning baby, helping her/him in attending nature’s call etc.
In this case if a mother has to take care of the baby then it automatically becomes her right to decide when to have a baby. Whether it is the case of pressure of In Laws or own parents but then she has right to raise her voice to establish her priorities and also obligations which she has towards her current organisation. Always in Indian society from the king Manu’s Era female are considered as a mode to give birth to a baby who will further carry the heritage and custom of the family.
No one ever thought that apart from this role there are several areas where they are required as for example to manage and administer the whole society, to rule the society, to impart education in human race, to train bureaucrats, as they are not only a symbol of sex but she is source of immense power which not only moulds a human race but also blesses them with knowledge and enlighten them with wisdom.
All these evidences clearly signify that if the female has to rear the baby then she should only decide about when to become a mother. Always due to stereo type behaviour men are under a notion that females can change nappies and clean the baby when she/he attends the nature’s call better as they are trained. But then the question arises that who has trained females about it and not males. The answer is mother of a female has trained her but cleanliness is not taught to a male child as generally mother do it on their own.
This is absolutely ridiculous that a male and female are born and brought up on earth and blessed by mother nature but then the rearing up of a baby becomes almost sole responsibility of a mother. Generally females are working in an organisation; hence male members are no more a sole earner in a family. In such cases the astonishing fact is that when they return to home, then husband demands a glass of water from his wife who has also entered simultaneously in the house. So it is really poor visibility of our society which expects that the husband will change into highly responsible father the day baby will be a part of family.
It cannot be concluded that baby will make an irresponsible husband a very responsible father because patience and perseverance for household chores cannot be built in few days but of course it is reaped by continuously bearing responsibility with pleasure .Always there are exceptions but then majorly it should be the right of a wife to decide when to have a baby as she has to take ample care of the new born baby till she has imparted lessons and training of the human civilization to the toddler, which is a herculean task.